It seems as if the word “candid” is used as a negative a lot. However, I would consider myself to be a candid person. The word itself is defined as frank; outspoken; open and sincere; free from reservation, disguise or subterfuge; straightforward. My handsome husband and I were attending a family dinner and when I glanced over I noticed Burk’s Aunt was trying to get a picture of us. It got me thinking about how much of our lives are really candid. In an age of posed selfies, I vastly prefer life’s moments caught unaware. We were at the Petroleum Club attending a Murchison family rehearsal dinner and it was lovely. It was packed and this picture was taken from a distance. Rarely do we have pictures of us together and I am really glad she took this and sent it to me. The American writer Connor Franta said:
“It always surprises me how much my followers appreciate how candid my photos are – they may not have a particularly unique subject, but it’s more about the light you shed on the subject than the subject itself.”
I love this quote. Looking at this candid picture of us I would like to think it says we are a happy couple that loves each other and looks out for one another. Vainly, I would like to think it says, “Hey, they’re a great looking couple.” Whatever the light that was shed on us here I am happy to have the memory … candid.