Aesop, the ancient Greek fabulist, famously said, “No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.” I was rushing through Home Depot for fountain pumps when I was unexpectedly greeted by a cat INSIDE the store. Of course I stopped to visit and was thrilled to see the employees had been kind enough to apparently let the kitty stay. The ear nick clearly marked that s/he had been “fixed”. I also noticed s/he had a hurt leg and prayed it wasn’t permanent. Before leaving I wanted to thank someone but I was too afraid to draw attention to the feline for fear s/he would be ousted. I do know that animal was being sheltered because of the kindness of at least ONE person. One person CAN make a difference. EACH of us matter. Next I went to my doctor’s for a physical. As I waited to sign in I saw the back of one of her receptionist’s heads and could not help but laugh out loud. It was right before Valentine’s and she was wearing a headband with red sparkly hearts that goggled wildly back and forth. What made it so funny was they wouldn’t stop even when she wasn’t moving. Staring in rapt fascination, I noticed she was also wearing blindingly hot pink shoes. She then turned around and smiled and I was still laughing. Seeing her grinning made me laugh even more. In turn, her smile broadened and there was a cheeky twinkle in her eyes. What a joy to see a grown woman happy enough to be silly and spread cheer on a holiday that sometimes seems exclusive to lovers. It was infectious (no pun intended) and soon she had her other coworkers laughing as well. Dubbing her the “Love Bug”, I got to see her again when I checked out. I told her I was going to tell everyone I caught a bug at the doctor’s and then together we both said, “a LUV bug!” I spent a lot of time in hospitals the last several years of my mother’s life; it holds a sadness for me I cannot easily shake. But for this day, this woman allowed me to forget and to be joyful. One woman wearing a genuine smile and wibbly hearts on a sparkly headband and a hurt kitty who just wanted to be patted both brought unexpected happiness to my heart. Each one of us affects someone every day and we may never even know it. A smile costs nothing from its giver but could be priceless to its receiver. Aesop’s words hold as true today as when they were written more than two millennia ago:
“No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.”
Choose kindness; choose smiles.