Be Kind To All Kinds


I grew up with my mother’s baby grand in our small apartment.  It looked so elegant and yet, when I got married and my husband bought our house I just could not seem to make it fit.  Mama’s Story and Clark was over 100 years old and in need of significant repair.  When I was in college I acquired this little upright Kimball and that easily fit into our home.  Have you ever noticed when you hear something “off” long enough you can actually get used to it?  Our little one’s piano teacher informed me our piano was in need of tuning.  It was so cool to watch the guy who came out, and he told me my piano was over 75 years old.  It got me to thinking about time, and (literally) being “out of tune.”  The whole concept (which has a negative connotation in some circles) about being “woke” has simply helped some people become in tune with what the truth of history actually is.  My
parents reared me to always do my best.  They also taught me to humbly accept there would be inevitable disappointments in my life:  crummy boyfriends; jobs that didn’t work out, or things that just weren’t fair.  I am not sure whether or not I have written this before, but my father taught me there was one thing I could always do.  He said I could ALWAYS be the most kind.  That really stuck with me.  It has been sort of the one thing I could always control.  How I wish my parents were still living.  In this picture it shows my daughter wearing her favorite T-shirt:  Be kind to all kinds.  She took it to mean plants and animals, while I took it to mean all the people who have hurt and/or betrayed me in life.  This was also when our piano was being tuned.  The Nobel Prize winning Polish-born American Jewish writer, Isaac Bashevis Singer, wrote, “Kindness, I’ve discovered, is everything in life.”  Times change and, if we are in tune with them, perhaps we can hear/understand things a bit better.  Whether or not we agree with everything happening — we all can still be kind to all kinds.

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8 comments on “Be Kind To All Kinds

  1. That was the one thing I told the children every year, all year, in my classroom. You can always be kind. ❤️
    Love this piece. Thank you for sharing.

  2. I love when we can take the negatives in our life and create positives out of it. As a child I became acquainted with the horror and pain of life and out of that came my desire to treat everyone with love and kindness because I didn’t want anyone to experience the pain I lived. through. Kindness cost us nothing so when we give it we become rich in so many ways.

    • Carolyn, I am so very sorry you became acquainted with “the horror and pain of life” as a child. You being courageous enough to share that makes me realize just how fortunate I have been. Oh, to eradicate it all for you!! Yet I am confident those experiences contributed to molding you into the incredible woman you are today. Out of a thunderstorm can come a rainbow …

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