Much to my husband’s seasonal torment, I am delighted to say that for years now our pond has attracted toads. At first I thought they were frogs but I have since discerned the difference. I love to hear them at night (my husband does NOT) and there is an even greater joy in seeing countless tadpoles in the water covering the rocks like tiny black dots. Few will survive into adulthood. I realize that is nature but I still pray for them all. As for their parents, once a cycle has completed they will start up their nightly chorus again. We are not overrun with amorous amphibians; I believe that is nature’s way as well. But we have been blessed to have several generations now and the whole processes is amazing to watch. I should qualify that my pet peeve is the word “amazing.” Clothes do not qualify as “amazing.” Food most definitely does not qualify as “amazing.” And shortcuts (do not even get me STARTED on the word “hacks”) do not qualify as “amazing.” The word has been so misused and overused I will go so far as to say I have not used it in my daily blog of over a year and a half so much as once. Suffice to say I do not use the word lightly. Now that I’m writing I realize at some point I have blogged about the toads, tadpoles and babies. I suppose I would have placed it under the nature column as I have done here. The funniest story ever is when my husband “rescued” a pair of toads that were on top of each other. “The big one was saving the little one from drowning!” he innocently exclaimed and I wondered how we had ever had a child. I instructed him to put them down IMMEDIATELY and to just leave them alone. Of course I always pick them up, pat them, and kiss them before sending them on their way. As the Scottish writer Kenneth Grahame, author of The Wind in the Willows, once said:
“It’s never the wrong time to call on Toad. Early or late he’s always the same fellow. Always good-tempered, always glad to see you, always sorry when you go!”
Anytime I am lucky enough to encounter them I always begin by saying, “Well hello toads!”