I am allergic to cinnamon and bleach. People seem to feel so sorry for me that I’m allergic to cinnamon. Trust me; it’s no hardship when it causes you violent migraines that can last for days. Or, if ingested, it can cause an outbreak that makes the mange look appealing. I have learned that if I smell either one of them to run as if the plague were after me. It turns out that my little one got my cinnamon allergy at least. I TOLD someone I feared she might be allergic but they gave her cinnamon applesauce anyway. My little two and a half year old (at the time) had a wickedly red, itchy stomach for days and she can still remember it. So she knows to avoid it. SOMEhow she got a hold of something with cinnamon and she ate it anyway. Her face promptly broke out in a bumpy red rash that looked progressively worse as the day wore on. I got a call from the school nurse asking permission to put some cortisone cream on it. I told her she could put whatever she deemed necessary on her face to get it under control. As fate would have it, my little one was up for a modeling audition the next day. As we were standing in line I tried not to stare with horror at the massive red bumps around her lips. “It looks bad,” she proclaimed. Not wanting to lie, I just said that by now she knows what cinnamon looks and smells like and to just stay away from it in the future. I could tell she was feeling self-conscious and that’s when I made the decision to bring her into a make-up store while we were just waiting around. “We’re going in here for ME?!” she asked with no small amount of incredulity. I let her know in no uncertain terms I did not approve of her wearing make-up. This, however, was to cover up a bad rash on her face and I told her that in this case it was acceptable. You can see by this picture she was so thrilled to be there! I used to listen to my father complain that my mother never wore lipstick until he went off to Korea. I love that he loved her just the way she was. To me natural beauty always shines though. The American singer Tina Turner said:
“My greatest beauty secret is being happy with myself. I don’t use special creams or treatments – I’ll use a little bit of everything. It’s a mistake to think you are what you put on yourself. I believe that a lot of how you look is to do with how you feel about yourself and your life. Happiness is the greatest beauty secret.”
I wish for my little one to understand the key to happiness in all things lies within.