Let’s Eat!


My daughter was barely four years old when she had to undergo both an endoscopy and a colonoscopy, whereafter it was pronounced that she was “gluten intolerant.”  I remember asking the doctor if it was Celiac’s and she replied it was too early to tell.  She said our child *might* outgrow it by the age of twelve.  Our girl is now ten and the little thing has been sneaking gluten (wheat) for quite some time now.  I think it all started when she was a flower girl at her cousin’s wedding.  I love the way my mother-in-law joked she ate “32 egg salad sandwiches” at a pre-wedding shower.  Honestly, I am not sure how far off that was from the truth!!!  We were told the bread was gluten-free but my mother-in-law knew better.  I was so dumb I believed them.  My MIL just sat back and watched, proclaiming my child would either “drop dead” or be fine.  Next her daddy starting allowing her “bites” of his food covered in flour, unbeknownst to me.  Then I find out my little one is trading her food at school like some kind of professional card sharp.  I found myself saying things like, “How do you know what that tastes like?” and receiving some cryptic, mumbled response.  During this past spring break we met a lovely couple of over twenty years and he offered our girl a (fried) “chicken finger.”  I told them she had never “officially” had gluten and I was incredibly relieved when I discovered his husband was a doctor.  Our girl had absolutely no side effects and my husband and I decided she could SLOWLY begin to implement “gluten” (wheat) into her diet.  Each day (which I thought was too fast) we’d introduce her to something new.  “DOUGHNUTS!” she’d shout.  The next day “QUESADILLAS!”  For those of you at home complaining about dietary restrictions, imagine a little girl in Kindergarten all the way through the fourth grade asking to leave birthday parties early because she knew she could not have cake, or pizza, or even ice cream.  While I may be celebrating our daughter’s newfound ability to eat wheat, I know many out there struggle with food allergies.  I cannot eat cinnamon or seafood.  Some people are deathly allergic to various foods.  The ancient Greek playwright Euripides once wrote, “When a man’s stomach is full it makes no difference whether he is rich or poor.”  Let us all remember those around the world who are suffering from malnutrition and starvation, and pray earnestly for them.  Gratitude is an attitude and I always try to acknowledge it.  I know my little one is … she keeps hollering “let’s eat!”

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The Nature of God’s Circle

When I was in the fourth grade, I began serving as an acolyte in the Methodist church.  I remember it was one of the very few “positions” open to girls.  We would process in before the service and go up to the altar to light the candles.  Afterward the two of us would sit on opposite sides of the church and then we would rise together to extinguish the candles at the end of the service.  In college (at Southern Methodist University) ironically I fell in love with the Episcopal Church.  Now I have a little girl who is in the fourth grade and she has begun serving as an acolyte in the Episcopal Church.  There are differences, as there is more responsibility in the Episcopal church versus when I was a Methodist.  An acolyte in the Episcopal church is more like a torchbearer:  two of them walk on either side of the crucifer (the acolyte who carries the cross/crucifix) up and down the aisle at the beginning and the end of the service.  In addition, they accompany the priest when the Holy Gospel is read.  My favorite is the thurifer, an acolyte who administers the incense.  Additional duties of acolytes may include taking the offering plates from the ushers so that the priest may bless them, as well as carrying the Sacraments up to the Celebrant for consecration.  It was my great honor to have attended my first “Stations of the Cross” with my little one serving as an acolyte.  In Anglican, Roman Catholic, and Orthodox churches (Greek, Russian, Ethiopian, etc.) all around the sanctuary there are scenes depicted of Christ’s journey to His crucifixion.  During Lent congregants may make a “pilgrimage,” following the path Jesus made to Calvary, from His condemnation to His entombment.  Commonly, a series of fourteen images are arranged in chronological order, and there is a pause at each station to pray and to reflect.  The cross upon which Christ was crucified was heavy; so are the torches acolytes carry to illuminate His journey.  My little one held her tall, wooden torch throughout all fourteen stations, and I was afraid she could not maintain it for that long.  I covertly snapped this picture of her first time to serve, kneeling at the altar, with the Sanctus bell off to her left.  I began serving formally in the church in the fourth grade and now my daughter is as well … life’s cycles continuing.  Empedocles was a pre-Socratic Greek philosopher who once said, “The nature of God is a circle of which the center is everywhere and the circumference is nowhere.”  I love this so very much.  We are all encompassed in the nature of God’s circle.

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