Tangiers

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It would be my favorite city we visited on this trip.  Clearly visible from the southern tip of Spain, the continent of Africa could be seen.  And by that I do not mean Sarah Palinesque; you really could see it!  A short ferry ride later and we were in Tangier.  Morocco!  Of course they speak French so I was thrilled.  It holds a rich history beginning with being a strategic Berber town in the 5th century.  In the 19th century it was considered to have international status by foreign colonial powers and became a destination for many European and American diplomats, spies, and writers.  I have read romance novels where the heroine gets lost down some narrow alleyway.  I could certainly see that happening if one veered off the wide, main street.  But cool, narrow alleys darkened by shade shielding against the afternoon sun beckoned with the exotic.  There were spices of every conceivable sort, silks, and trinkets behind heavy rugs that covered some of the vendors’ openings.  If one gave into temptation, as did I, it was incredibly easy to get disoriented with all the twists and turns.  One shop blended into the next and before I knew it I was beset upon by three charming, very smart, very persistent little urchins.  They hit me up for money in perfect English, French, Spanish, and German before I finally gave in.  The trio could not have been more than seven and they KNEW women would soften seeing their dark, puppy dog eyes peeking up at them from beneath long black lashes.  The youngest one started crying because he said I didn’t give him any money — when clearly I did.  That’s when I realized the little stinkers were professionals.  And they were good!  I shelled out more dirhams before I realized I’d been had.  When I narrowed my eyes and told them in French that was IT the oldest gave me a knowing look and they all scampered off.  Making our way back to the main part of the medina, we sat down for some Moroccan mint tea — my absolute favorite.  I thought it was strange to be drinking hot tea in the middle of a hot afternoon but it was delicious.  When I quietly remarked to my husband how charming the little glasses were with their colorful peacocks on them our sweet server gave mine to me to keep just before we left.  I still have it and I cherish it.  We went through the old Kasbah and I found myself unwittingly thinking of the ’80’s punk rock song “Rock the Casbah”.  We also visited the Kasbah Museum; the former Sultan’s palace.  It contained a collection of artifacts from the Phoenician to modern times as well as a beautiful garden.  We were there during Ramadan and our lunch was a light one.  I remember leaning back against the velvet, colored cushions of my second story window seat looking out over the Grand Mosque of Tangier.  Listening to the beautiful, lilting sounds that were the call to prayer coming from loud speakers throughout town was one of the most moving experiences of my life.  Perhaps even more surprising was seeing the Anglican Church of Saint Andrew coexisting peacefully not too far away.  They seemed to love Americans and Morocco was the first country to recognize the United States in 1777.  Locals would stop us just wanting to talk.  I could not leave without purchasing a beautiful, cobalt blue hanging lamp.  We always keep it on with an electric “gas” light.  American writer Paul Theroux said:

“The two impulses in travel are to get away from home, and the other is to pursue something — a landscape, people, an exotic place.  Certainly finding a place that you like or discovering something unusual is a very sustaining thing in travel.”

In Morocco I found exotic wares, welcoming people, and a landscape framed by the foaming waves of the sea.  It was lovely, memorable, and sustaining indeed.

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Cadiz

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The port of Cadiz was our next day’s excursion.  Founded 3,000 years ago, it is the oldest continuously inhabited city in Spain and is situated on a narrow slice of land surrounded by the sea.  We visited an archeological museum called the Casa del Obispo.  Just outside the Cathedral of Cadiz’s eastern exterior wall there was an expansive museum of glass walkways that took us over excavated Roman ruins and spanned events in Cadiz’s history from the 8th century BC up until the 18th century.  It served as a Phonecian funerary complex, a Roman temple, a mosque, and then became Episcopal in the 16th century.  Each of the different peoples who settled the city left an important cultural imprint.  Their influence still remains in the character of its people.  What I remember most is our obese, sweaty guide attempting to lead us through the (essentially) nude beach in order to observe one of the cities ancient fortifying walls.  Something tells me it could have been viewed elsewhere and Burk and I decided to sit that one out.  Call me a prudish American but it was just too shocking with everyone exposed like that.  All the men wore thongs with the tiniest scrap holding the front of them in … sort of holding them in.  It was worse than any Texas strip club and frankly I found it traumatizing.  I was not about to schlepp in between naked people fully clothed — history lover or no.  The English poet Robert Browning said, “Perhaps one has to be very old before one learns to be amused rather than shocked.”  All I can say is it was an eye opening experience.

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Roman Ruins Near Tarifa

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There is something beautifully haunting about ruins by the sea.  It’s the juxtaposition between the ephemeral and the eternal.  This day was a scorcher and we were in Tarifa.  There were only a few people wandering about as the pillars cast long shadows over the ground.  Inside a museum held all sorts of interesting artifacts unearthed in the dig.  Baelo Claudia was an ancient Roman town whose history was with the trade routes that served Europe and North Africa.  The town’s strategic position near the Straits of Gibraltar made it a crucial stopping point between the two continents.  It derived its wealth from the fishing industry and supplied garum (fish paste) to the whole Roman Empire.  Apparently it was a popular delicacy.  The ruins boasted an impressive temple, forum, basilica, and — the town’s livelihood — a large fish salting factory.  At the top was a theater and we walked along the stones against a stunning backdrop of golden sand and blue sea.  I could hear the waves crashing and I thought once again of history and time.  Nations rise and fall but the ocean remains, withstanding the folly of man and bearing testament to it all.  The 18th century French political philosopher Charles de Montesquieu said, “Luxury ruins republics; poverty, monarchies.”  But the tides roll on.

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A Palomar And The Rock Of Gibraltar

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This day we headed out to see an ancient dovecote.  I thought it was so cool until I found out they raised the birds to eat them.  I figured they were used as carrier pigeons.  Apparently they were also utilized for their eggs as well as their dung.  It is in the Guiness Book of World Records as the largest dovecote in the world with 7770 clay nests.  Active until the 18th century, now it was mostly empty.  I learned something else new as well; I had always heard of the Rock of Gibraltar but had no idea we were fairly close.  Never having been on British soil, I wanted to visit.  I remember being so excited to get another stamp on my passport and they didn’t even do it!  It seemed so out of place to see the Union Jack flying everywhere, double decker buses, and people driving on the left side of the road.  There were police with their high, rounded hats and others with large guns at the border.  The highest point of the rock rises almost 1,400 feet above the strait.  Approximately 40% of Gibraltar’s land was declared a nature preserve in 1993.  I so wanted to see the famed Barbary macaques but we ran out of time.  We did get to admire the peaceful botanical gardens which were both quiet and cooling.  English novelist Graham Greene said:

“The border means more than a customs house, a passport officer, a man with a gun.  Over there everything is going to be different; life is never going to be quite the same again after your passport has been stamped.”

As our driver took us back to Vejer along the high, curving roads that lined the sea I realized that although my actual passport stamp had eluded me, I now carried with me the stamp of being forever changed and I looked forward to what else this trip had in store.

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Jerez de la Frontera

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It was our first full day in Spain and we were off to visit the city known for horses, sherry, flamenco and motorcycles.  We would experience the first two on this day and began by visiting the Jerez Horse Show.  The Andalusians were stunning but I was not sure how I felt about watching the beautiful creatures “perform”.  I understand it originated for training in battle and has since become more for pageantry of heritage and tradition now.  It is dedicated to conserve classical and country dressage, the breed of the Spanish horse, and the and culture.  As a native Texan, I know hot.  I survived the heat wave of the 80’s and would carry my child during the hottest summer on record.  However, thank the Lord we have air conditioning.  It was Texas hot minus the coolant.  Next we were off to visit the famed sherry vineyards of Tio Pepe.  The lush canopy of green vines provided a respite from the heat and looked like a magical forest.  During our tour we learned the area has a long history of wine production.  Phoenicians, Greeks, Romans, and Moors all brought with them their own wine making techniques when they occupied the area.  The development of sherry reflects the development of Spain itself.  The grounds are composed of several bodegas.  One of the largest, built in 1857, is Los Apostles named for the great central cask “El Cristo”.  Smaller casks flank it, each bearing the names of the Apostles.  There is also La Concha, built in 1862 and designed by the famed Gustav Eiffel.  Flags show each country that has imported their sherry.  In addition there is the Bodega los Reyes bearing the signatures of royalty who have visited.  Others cellars boast the sketches, dates, and signatures of famous artists.  We sat down for a private wine tasting mid-afternoon.  As a vegetarian, I was coming to discover much to my horror that the Spaniards adore prosciutto.  I mean they serve it at every meal and with everything.  The trouble for me was I kept looking for some olives at least.  My husband will not eat anything cold and when he is displeased his lips turn down just like Beaker on the Muppets.  Displeasure for him is having nothing to eat — or in having it served cold.  We sat in tables of four under a tent and I remember praying our sherry tasting would at least cool me down a little.  I cannot remember our fourth other than they were not drinking along with my pouting husband.  But four different bottles later my grandmother-in-law pronounced she was more charming and beautiful than ever.  That woman matched me drink for drink and she was in her early 80’s at the time.  She also spent a considerable amount of time imitating her grandson which made me snicker.  The best part of the afternoon was visiting the final bodega and seeing a wine glass full of sherry with a tiny ladder leading up to it.  It was said there was a mouse who kept chewing through the casks so they began leaving him his own glass.  I could not get a good picture in the dark cellar but it was charming.  We made our way back to Vejer and I decided to enjoy our balcony view and indulge in a cigar.  It was peaceful and I would find myself making the nightly climb to drink in the sights pictured above and to reflect on each day.

“Humans are the only creatures with the ability to dive deep in the sea, fly high in the sky, send instant messages around the globe, reflect on the past, assess the present and imagine the future.”  American Sylvia Earle, first female Chief Scientist of the U.S. National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration

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Spain: Vejer

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In August of 2008 we got to travel to Spain for a family wedding.  I remember the flight(s) being LONG but I was grateful to be going.  First we flew from Dallas to Dulles (Virginia) and then on to Madrid.  Once there we took another flight to Jerez de la Frontera.  Pictured is our lovely room’s little private courtyard Burk and I would enjoy for the next week.  It is part of the Casa Del Califa whose origins date back to the 10th century.  Sitting in the heart of the old palm filled plaza is a big circular, colored mosaic tiled fountain.  The whole little town is washed in white and rests high on a hill with narrow winding roads leading up to it.  I remember being surprised by how much I enjoyed this trip.  I always thought I might love Italy more.  But all the Moorish influences were too beautiful for me to resist with their rounded doorways and more Eastern architecture than Western.  We did a lot and some of it is a sort of blur; but a pretty one.  I never probably would have come here if not for this wedding and it was an enriching experience.  I shall endeavor to share highlights of my trip in the hope that someone reading this will be able to visit (or revisit) some of the same places.  And, if you never go, perhaps something I write about will interest you enough to take a virtual visit.  It is amazing (and I do not ever use that word lightly) how far one can go, do, and see on the internet now.  So sit back with a glass of sangria and take a trip with me to the South of Spain.

“Spain is a fascinating mix of people, languages, culture and food, but if there is one thing all Spaniards share, it’s a love of food and drink.” ~ Chef Jose Andres Puerta

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Now She Can Have Her Cake and Eat It, Too

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In the week since I’ve found out my little one is gluten intolerant and also cannot have dairy or eggs we have been to two birthday parties.  Both served pizza and cupcakes.  Both she could not eat.  At the first party she cried because she wanted to stay and sing “Happy Birthday” to the birthday girl.  (I was trying to get her out before they started eating.)  God bless them for being considerate enough to get her a dairy free, egg free, gluten free cupcake.  I know you won’t believe this but you would never know the difference; it was truly delicious.  I have now discovered snack mix she can have while others are eating pizza and I hope to get to the point where I bring her own pizza discreetly and slip it in.  The great thing is it requires vegan cheese and she is developing my sensitivity to animals.  Whether or not she is headed down the path to being a vegetarian I cannot say, but cutting dairy is such a wonderful thing to do for the cows.  She had a great time and proudly ate her cupcake along with everyone else.  I am told Disney World accommodates gluten free as well as other food allergies, God bless them.  I left today’s birthday party with an elated kiddo who informed me she did not need a nap but dozed off mid-sentence.  American author Peter Guber said, “Stories aren’t the icing on the cake; they are the cake!”  I look forward to enjoying a lot more cake with my precious, beautiful Baby Doll.

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Water Seeks Its Own Level

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My father always used to tell me that water seeks its own level.  As I get older I realize how much brilliance is packed into that small statement.  Compassionate people go with compassionate people (and get labeled animal nuts), complaining people go with other complainers (and feed on negativity), artists gravitate to other artists (and swap creative energy), and athletic people find other athletes to play with, even if it’s not the sport in which they excel.  I think the exception to this is mean people.  Mean people always seem to have a silent leader — like a general quietly commanding their troops.  And the wanna-be “in” crowd fall in line like lemmings.  I have a lifetime of experience with the last, mostly based upon our (lack of) economic status.  In the fourth grade I was the only one in the Dallas Girls’ Chorus who could not afford to make the trip to sing for the President in Washington D.C.; the other girls were vicious.  I knew my folks were working hard to even get me to rehearsals and concerts and to pay for my uniform.  So I told them I had a great year but I was ready to leave.  I wasn’t; it broke my heart.  I loved to sing.  But I did not want to put any more pressure on them when I knew there was absolutely no way they could pay for it.  I remember being snubbed every day at the water fountain during our break and the girls talking about their nannies who braided their hair.  And I realized that despite my loneliness and my sadness they were the sad and lonely ones.  I had a mother who loved me and waited to teach school until I was in junior high.  My parents made incredible financial sacrifices for my happiness.  I knew Mama was waiting for us at home in our tiny apartment with an incredible meal on the stove.  I always asked Daddy to pick me up on the side because I was ashamed of our car, for which I was also made fun of.  But I knew I had the love and support of my parents shown to me daily in the time they made for me.  I was closer to them than anyone on the planet.  Sadly, that meanness I always experienced has followed me into adulthood; I’m not sure why.  By that I do not mean I am part of it!  It just still seems to happen to me.  It also happens to my husband.  Aside from my Daddy, I have never known a finer man.  I think Freud would agree I married someone just like my father not necessarily in looks (although they do share incredible handsomeness) but in traits and values.  In 1 Chronicles 16:11 of the Bible it says:

Seek the LORD and His strength; Seek His face continually.

I have always loved fortunes in “cookies” and pictured above is the one I received last night.  “Those who seek will find.”  I intend to seek the Lord and His strength and to seek His face continually.  I intend to seek out the compassionate, the artistic, the athletic, and the kind people with whom I can build friendships.  I want the same for my family.  And, if we cannot find anyone else like-minded, God in His graciousness has blessed us with each other.  I have never gone along with the crowd, nor has my husband.  I can tell my daughter will not either.  Water seeks its own level.

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Find Me Gluten Free

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It’s official.  The doctor called with the results from my four year old’s endoscopy and she is gluten intolerant.  I am grateful she does not have a more serious disorder.  As anti-GMO as I have always been I feel woefully ignorant of the fact that basically gluten is a filler they’re putting in all our food.  I don’t allow the wolfies or kitties to have any grain/fillers in their food!  And yet here we’ve been chucking it down unwittingly all this time.  I truly had no idea how prevalent it is.  Again, I’m looking at this as a blessing in disguise.  Our bodies weren’t meant to digest this and I’ve been speaking with more and more people who are refusing to eat gluten simply because they realize it is bad — not because they have any problems with it.  So my little one and I were looking through the grocery store to see what we could eat and she was the one who asked about pretzels.  I told her I had no idea but we could check.  I immediately found these and could not believe it was gluten, dairy and egg free:  the three things she cannot have.  I did not even know it took eggs to make pretzels to begin with.  We decided to break them open right there in the aisle and I prayed they wouldn’t taste like cardboard.  I have never really yearned for pretzels and these are terrific!  They taste so good it’s shocking.  Christian novelist C.S. Lewis said, “Every disability conceals a vocation, if only we can find it, which will ‘turn the necessity to glorious gain.”  I was elated for my little one and knew if we’d found this we would find other things.  And we would be OK … perhaps even better than we were before.

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A SPAradic (Re)Treat

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I have made no secret of my love for my Apple Watch.  In fact, I credit it with making me realize how sedentary I was despite the fact that I walk a lot.  I cannot go to any gym because they make me extremely anxious.  Between the blaring music, flashing television screens and weights being slammed down, or some instructor shouting at a group of sweaty people, it’s all a bit too much for me.  I far prefer the outdoors and watching the sun rise or set as I jog.  I made a New Year’s resolution to “make” my rings on the Apple Watch every day.  There are three:  one is for standing each hour, one for moving (calories), and one for your heart.  Of particular import to me is the one which requires getting your heart rate up for half an hour.  Instead using food as a congratulatory, at the end of each month I am treating myself to my all time favorite indulgence — a 90 minute hot stone massage.  It is the best reward for me for a month of daily running and, if I miss once no matter what, I don’t get it.  So I am trying to use that as the proverbial carrot to keep going.  Not only am I sore from punching and kicking in karate, it offers a soothing environment which helps tamp down my anxiety.  So now I have gotten two wonderful massages, along with virtual medals from my watch noting each month’s worth of consistent exercise.  I am trying to make this a habit like brushing my teeth; I want to get to the point where I simply do it.  When I don’t want to, or I’m too tired, I remind myself of the need to stay healthy.  American essayist Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “The reward of a thing well done is having done it.”  I hope to reach that point.  Until then I shall anticipate my next date with those heavenly smooth hot stones that await.

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