We were all sad to leave Atlantis. Our now like family member Mr. Damarius graciously took this photo of us as he wheeled our smitten little girl out along with our luggage. I realized I would miss this man, so much younger than my own father but SO very much like him. I noticed the way our little one loved him and it was hard not to lament the loss of my Daddy never getting to know his only granddaughter in this life. Mr. Damarius, much like my father Marcus, was one of a kind. He was upbeat, joking, and always positive. I missed my Daddy so very much in that moment. He worked with joy, just as my father always did and I found myself hugging him as we left. With Atlantis behind us I saw reality and my childhood blending together in a flash. Poverty. Despair. Hope. Struggle. I vowed never to forget my roots and I told my husband and child about them on the way to the airport. It is so important never to forget. Never to forget the hardship. Never to forget the pain. It wrapped itself around me like an old worn blanket. And I tried, perhaps futilely, to explain it to my family. Life for me had always been rather harsh, and I did not want my two beloveds getting soft. I wanted them to understand the plight of most people, and how very privileged we were to have gotten to take this trip. Because he put no expectations or pressure on us, I really missed my father-in-law when he left. It became doubly hurtful when I realized how very much I still needed and missed my own father. I knew we needed to stand alone, but it did not lessen the sting. It was time; we needed to be leaving the city.
Beauty, Strength, And Greatness
Unlike I suppose how most people feel, other than Steve Irwin, the Crocodile Hunter, whom I had always fervently hoped to meet, I love our apex predators. We NEED them. They have all been demonized for millennia and some are only now just beginning to be appreciated for the vital roles they play within our ecosystems. If you have ever read one of my blogs you will know we live with wolf hybrids. Blue sharks inhabit the deep waters of the world’s temperate and tropical oceans and have been referred to as the “wolves of the sea” because of their tendency to roam the Atlantic in groups. I saw several different species of sharks thriving at Atlantis but I am not sure if they had blue sharks. What I did see was a double-sided supercool “Mayan Temple Shark Lagoon.” Down below visitors can walk right up and see them up-close and a Japanese photographer was so taken with the images of our tiny child juxtaposed with the enormous sharks he asked if he could take pictures of her with them and then send them to us. He was so kind that we agreed. You could see our four-year-old reaching up to the creatures as they swam languidly over and around her. It was both a mighty and a humbling experience. Paul Watson, a Canadian marine wildlife conservation and environmental activist, said:
“The shark is the apex predator in the sea. Sharks have molded evolution for 450 million years. All fish species that are prey to the sharks have had their behavior, their speed, their camouflage, their defense mechanisms molded by the shark.”
It was a real thrill to come so close to the wolf of the seas’ beauty, strength, and greatness.
Echoes Of Its Spirit
There is something so enticing about the green-blue waters of the Caribbean. I love a vibrant, vivid green and deep, rich blue. When the two mix it is a beautiful display of light and dark — at once the revealed and the unknown. I had never been past the Gulf side of the United States before. The beautiful mix of the islanders’ skin was intriguing, as well as their names. Our favorite guy was Damarius. I had never heard that name before and I love it. He always had a great attitude every time we saw him. Then I noticed how the women of Atlantis all wore eyeshadow that matched their uniforms. So each time we went down to our breakfast buffet we were greated by these beautiful woman wearing green suits and dark green, glitter eyeshadow. In another part of the resort they wore a vivid blue in both dress as well as around their eyes. I found green and blue continued throughout, from the people to the water. The effect was both mesmerizing and mystical. Speaking of which, they had a bar over the shark area and I discovered this delight you see pictured here. I had no idea what it was even called — I just saw a man with one and said, “I’ll have what he’s having!” It tasted even better than it looked. Enjoying this drink in the shade as the sunlight glinted off the green-blue water was tranquil and transporting. The American poet Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, “Nature always wears the colors of the spirit.” Looking all around me I was surrounded by countless amazing living creatures — both inside and out — as well as water pouring and contained both inside and out. Relaxing and inviting; wondrous and mysterious: these were the thoughts I took away from this reimagined resort of the mythical city of Atlantis. I would say it definitely magnified echoes of its spirit.
Rum-Runner
The next day we traveled off the island and ventured into Nassau, the capital of the Bahamas. Walking down the dock from Paradise Island to get to the ferry there were women offering to braid my hair. I’d always wanted to have lots of tiny cornrows for the beach, complete with beads rattling. But then something else I had wanted even more caught my eye. There was a large native woman with kind eyes and a sweet face standing near the water deftly brandishing a giant cleaver knife. As a vegetarian, this would normally have sent me running. And then I saw it — she was holding a pineapple and proceeded to expertly pour all sorts of rum and heaven only knows what in it along with some ice. Above the fresh-cut fruit the frozen concoction was garnished with a straw placed jauntily at an angle. My eyes pretty much popped out of my head. “Bahama Mama take care of you,” she said with a smile and a knowing wink. Fortified with my rum we rode the ocean waves a short distance to shore. With thoughts of rum (as well as actual rum) swirling in my head, we all decided to visit the Pirates of Nassau Museum. Of course this was a more lively museum than a stodgy one, with jocular actors scattered about dressed in character to draw people in. First we stepped into a re-creation of a typical period ship where everyone passed through in close quarters. All along the walls were interesting facts about piracy. They also debunked various myths about pirates including “‘X’ marks the spot” and walking the plank. The Pirates’ Code of Honor was extremely harsh. I learned about marooning, the acceptable practice of putting a crew member who had broken the code ashore on one of the many uninhabited islands. The ship would never return. There was definitely a type of honor in the Code, though; among them was that a pirate was never to hurt a woman. The American author Robert Kurson said:
“Piracy was risky business, and injuries were commonplace; a single lost limb or gouged-out eye could end a pirate’s career. To encourage pirates not to hesitate in battle – and out of a sense of fairness – many pirate crews compensated wounded crewmen in predetermined amounts.”
They had an interesting flag room, complete with the Jolly Roger, the infamous skull and bones. I was also surprised to learn there were women pirates, too. During Prohibition in the U.S. rum-runners in the Caribbean went from smuggling rum to Florida, to Canadian Whiskey, French champagne, and English gin to major cities like New York, Boston, and Chicago. It was said that some ships carried as much as $200,000 in contraband in a single run. Coming to the end of our tour our little one was now on the lookout for pirates. And, with dramatic flair, we met up with one! He gently swooped her up and pointed his sword at the rest of us, asking if we “be friend or foe.” Rather than being scared she emitted a tiny giggle; her golden curls bouncing in the afternoon sun. Our matey put her down after I’d gotten this picture and we had lunch in this adjacent tavern. In keeping with our theme, I had a Rum-Runner.
Mythical Creatures
When you first enter Atlantis one cannot help but look up in awe at the magnificent fountains, the giant pillars, the imagined murals and tapestries depicting former Atlantean life, and — most of all — the enormous circular tank full of sea creatures that swim all around you, fed by the ocean’s natural currents. I do not normally condone animals in captivity ever. Sadly, some places like zoos and wildlife preserves have now become our last bastions for trying to save and/or revive entire animal species. With overhunting, overfishing, overpopulation, pollution, and flagrant disregard for land conservation and water protection, some of these “parks” ironically have become our final hope in many ways. Wildlife needs wilderness; wild spaces and wild places for them to not merely survive but to thrive. The legendary French oceanographer Jacques Cousteau said:
We must plant the sea and herd its animals using the sea as farmers instead of hunters. That is what civilization is all about – farming replacing hunting.
That is exactly how Atlantis felt to me … like a great farming “civilization” rather than a hunting one. I was thrilled to discover Atlantis protects their wildlife and has even pioneered breeding programs for some of the ocean’s native sea creatures there. As someone who will never support places like Sea World, I felt Atlantis seemed to be for the perpetuation of species, and their breeding programs put sea animals back out into the ocean where they belong. The next morning we walked down to breakfast through a winding trail of beautiful native foliage. Dotted along the way were whimsical, mystical ocean touches, and even an open shallow pool for live conchs. Right outside our window we watched the stingrays having their breakfast while we had ours. I would like to believe such a civilization can exist … where mankind and animals live together in harmony and prosperity. Like the the critically endangered red wolves, the rare black panthers, and the vulnerable white rhinos, I do not want to see our precious, priceless wildlife reduced for future generations into nothing more than mythical creatures.
Atlantis
It is the fictional island mentioned within an allegory on the hubris of nations in two of Plato’s works, with Atlantis eventually becoming swallowed by the sea. The history lover in me wishes Atlantis did in fact exist. I have always found it to be an intrigue. After all, Pompeii was a lost civilization a volcano allowed us to see completely frozen in time. Could the ocean not hold a preserved one as well? Man has not solved all history’s mysteries (for instance, Noah’s Ark) and there are more waiting to be found. During spring break last year, my father-in-law took the three of us on our first paternal family vacation to Atlantis the resort. My husband is his eldest child and our daughter of course is his granddaughter. I would say he has spent a lot of his life in the Bahamas but he had never been to this resort. Frankly I do not think we could have ever afforded to go without him. But more importantly, we were truly sorry to see him leave three days later while he graciously allowed us to stay two more. Some may pooh-pooh large, all-inclusive resorts but I quickly learned their merit. The American poet Charles Olson, who described himself not so much as a poet but as “an archeologist of morning” once wrote, “Atlantis will rise again.” I have repeatedly teased my husband, who enjoys myths such as Bigfoot and theories about aliens and I felt guilty that when it was something in which I would like to believe I found it quite fascinating. Ever since I was a kid and watched Aquaman on Saturday morning cartoons I have fallen in love with the idea of Atlantis. Aquaman could breathe unassisted underwater and, even cooler, he could telepathically communicate with the all of the sea’s creatures. Of course his character is fictional. The Greeks, however were divided as to whether or not Plato’s story of the powerful and advanced kingdom which sank into the ocean in a night and a day was history or metaphor. More recent times have suggested possible historical locations, most commonly the Greek Island of Santorini, which was destroyed by a volcanic eruption around 1,600 B.C. For those of you who have not been, allow me to take you into a world where “archaeology,” “history,” and myth mingle with “artifacts,” “pictographs” and living sea creatures surrounded by great pillars, magnificent fountains, and majestic looking towers all soaring impressively above the blue green sea … Atlantis.
Landing On The Landing
My whole life I just wanted to have a two story house. I had these visions of coming down the stairs on Christmas morning to discover prettily wrapped presents under a shimmering tree. We may not have a grand staircase, but we have a beautiful two story house for which we are exceedingly grateful. Our little landing seems to be the point of popularity amongst our household. Pictured here is Dakota, surrounded by five of our little one’s toy cats. For the record our real cats enjoy it as well, I suppose because it lends a pretty good vantage of our house between the skylights in the roof and what’s going on downstairs. Navigating it, though, is a whole other story. Our male wolfie is about 6’4″ tip to tail and thinks he’s a tiny lap “dog.” Our little one has taken to playing here despite my repeated grumblings that I am going to topple over onto my head one of these days. And then I thought to myself, every time I go up or down I am treated to love. It’s either from a sleeping cat who wants to nuzzle, one of the wolfies who wants a pat, or a charming vignette left behind by our child. How blessed I am to have not just a house but really the love that makes it a home. The famed Japanese poet Matsuo Basho said, “Every day is a journey, and the journey itself is home.” For me every day is a journey landing on the landing.
How We Handle It That Counts
Not being a huge beer drinker, I have never quite understood the preoccupation with the precise way one is supposed to tilt the glass just so, or maybe it’s the bottle, when pouring beer. I know it’s got something to do with not wanting to have the foam. All my mind goes to is Julie Andrew’s heavenly voice in The Sound Of Music singing, “Men drinking beer with the foam afloat heard …” Doesn’t the foam just go back down? It’s not as if it dissipates into the air. *shrug* I have stopped offering to pour my husband’s beer because he … makes … me … go … SO … SLOW!!! Holy cow it’s not like it’s a fine wine that needs to be aerated or something. Anyhow, before I went to write this I decided to enjoy my French beer 1664. I quickly dumped it into my glass and this was the result. Perhaps this was too much foam because it spilled over. Suddenly I found myself sticking my fingers in the foam to get it to go down. (I suspect it’s sad I consider that a science trick.) Anyhow, I do NOT like to waste. I don’t care WHAT it is — paper towels, water, food, electricity, money, or anything else. Maybe because my folks were both born during the Great Depression Era (the early 1930’s) so it was always ingrained upon me never to waste no matter what. I think it is actually a practice everyone should follow. We all share finite resources and the earth is precious. For that matter so is time. I have written before my father used to say that time was the one thing he could not replace. From a glass of beer my thoughts have made their way to how we live our lives. Do we go so cautiously we never fully experience it? Or do we move through it so recklessly we waste it? Perhaps shouldn’t it be somewhere in-between? The American radio speaker Earl Nightingale once said:
“Learn to enjoy every minute of your life. Be happy now. Don’t wait for something outside of yourself to make you happy in the future. Think how really precious is the time you have to spend, whether it’s at work or with your family. Every minute should be enjoyed and savored.”
I suppose one way or another our lives get foamy. It’s all in how we handle it that counts.
Colors Burst
It was the Fourth of July, the day the United States celebrates its independence. This night brought me back to a brief time in my life when I did not have a care in the world. Summers were giddy affairs riding my Big Wheel, climbing trees, smelling freshly mown grass, and listening to the sound of cicadas. Anything was possible. I want to extend that as long as I can for my child. When I was young my father had a bad accident after being forced to work in dangerous conditions. Things became more and more difficult after that. My parents tried to shield me but I knew. I was so sheltered and yet very aware of harsh reality. I learned first hand how people treat others who are rich and how the poor are treated. I have met people without a lick of common sense who are wealthy and I have met some truly brilliant people who are poor. Why does society equate money with success? I grew up strong and secure in a loving family and we were truly happy. No one was drinking or popping pills despite terrible hardship. Another adjustment in my life came when I learned my grandmother was Choctaw. I became angry. Angry with a white society that had for centuries devalued that particular race of people more than any other. It is a duality I have yet to fully accept — neither wolf nor dog. Once I asked my daddy how he could celebrate the Fourth. He turned his vivid, dark blue eyes on me and said his grandfather escaped from Germany hidden in a pig boat during the war. My father fought in Korea for eight years and was awarded with distinction without once bragging about it. But he was proud to be American and especially proud to be an American Indian veteran. Not many realize the original “Code Talkers” were actually Choctaw, beginning their service in World War I. The Navajo Code Talkers’ invaluable contributions helped us win World War II. For years I have watched in awe at pow wows’ Grand Entries, heard the Flag Songs of many different (Indian) nations, and have seen the pride on the Native American faces who have served in the United States military. My child may be more Caucasian than American Indian but she will still know her history, and the history of her people. On this carefree night I thought deeply about our nation’s past and how I will begin to gently start presenting it to my child. As I watched her happily playing with these lit necklaces I decided there are some things that can wait. I am teaching her Indian ways most whites know nothing about, but right now I think that is all she needs to know. The American singer Katy Perry’s hit “Firework” was playing as the fireworks began. My daughter loves this song. Among the song’s lyrics it says, “‘Cause baby you’re a firework; Come on show them what you’re worth.” I thought it was so fitting. My baby is a firework — and she will let her colors burst.
I Want Her To Soar
When I was pregnant, one of the first things I did was to buy a little painted bookshelf for the baby. My husband and I tried to make a date night each week where, after dinner, we would visit the bookstore to slowly build a small collection for her. We both love to read so we really looked forward to going. As we began placing books on the little shelves I realized we were really filling her library with our loves, our hopes, and dreams we had for her. We bought favorites from my youth like Madeline, a sweet daily devotional entitled Give Me Grace and our old dinosaur books even managed to find their way in. When she was first born we read to her each night but let’s face it, we also read for ourselves. To this day my husband’s favorite book of hers is One Ted Fell Out Of Bed. Now that she is older, we have infrequently resurrected our old bookstore date nights (party of three now,) proud that she loves exploring the shelves even though she is really just beginning to read. On this night I decided to head down to the cigar shop and let them have a daddy/daughter date. When we met back our little one came running up to me saying, “MAMA! MAMA! LOOK WHAT DADDY BOUGHT ME!” My husband, with a slight blush, told me it was in the clearance bin. She could not stop chattering about the precious box she held full of ten plastic, colored, winged ponies. At least she came out with a book I thought, as the story was inside the box. I tried to follow the unGodly complex lineage and storyline of these creatures — I really did. But My Little Pony is more complicated than a soap opera! My head began to pound after almost half an hour of earnest listening. And then I realized her father had let HER choose her own book, allowing her to read about interests she has developed all by herself. The American novelist Lauren Myracle said, “Ideas matter. The world matters. Our lives matter, and the choices we make as we navigate our lives perhaps matter most of all.” My parents empowered me to make my own choices. That is my fervent wish for my child. I don’t want to clip her rainbow pony wings; I want her to soar.
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